The hardest part of learning a language is picking up that book or putting on that CD when you don't feel like you're getting anywhere. If you can just overcome this problem, you will learn your language in time.
A lot of people think you need the best method to learn. But go to a used book store and find a Berlitz Self-Teacher from the 40s, or a Teach Yourself book from the 50s. For that matter, check out the Dover reprints of self-teaching manuals from the late 1800s. People learned from these. Really! Not everybody learned from them, of course. And not everybody is going to learn from Pimsleur or Michel Thomas, even though they may be the best teach yourself audio programs devised to date. And not everybody is going to learn from the fancy stuff they're coming out with for the computer, the iPhone, the iPod, etc. Still, a trip to Amazon or Barnes and Noble opens you up to resources whose clarity and simplicity would have made a linguaphile from the 40s weep. So if you're going to be one of those people who actually learn, now's a great time to be alive, though 20 years from now will doubtless be better.
What you need, as I say, is not a better, easier, clearer method per se. What you need is something to keep you going when you hit those lulls where your brain is consolidating information. A lot of people think that some people have a gift for languages. True enough, some do have a better ear or a sharper memory. But what drives most successful language learners is not talent, but enthusiasm. Because what you need more than anything is comprehensible input - lots and lots and lots of it - so that your brain can work out and automate at the subconscious level all those words and all those structures that distinguish language from gibberish.
Here's the big idea for today: The biggest skill required for learning a language successfully is to keep doing it. And that has nothing to do with language learning per se. So, how do you keep doing something, even when you're not feeling yourself making progress the way you once did? Let's look at some thoughts from Robert Collier in
Secret of the Ages:
First. Center your thoughts on the thing that you want. Visualize it. Make a mental image of it - in fact, make an actual picture of it if you can...
Want to be a polyglot? Go to google images and find a blank world map (
here). The do a search for "[language] map" for each language you want to learn. Print out your world map and color in each country where they speak the languages you know or are learning. With just four languages - English, French, Spanish and Arabic - you'll see that the world is yours. So print the map, color it in and look at it every day. The more you see it, the more you'll see that if you just "build and maintain" - don't say "learn," as though they're as yet unknow to you - your languages, the more the possibilities of the world are open to you.
What if you're just learning one language? Well, you still want to be smart about it. People carry around flashcards and think of them as "words I don't know" or "words I still need to learn." That's the spirit! Make a habit of calling your flashcards "Words I'm Reviewing" or "Words I'm Mastering." Or be bold: Call it, "Words I know!" Then every time you get one right, you'll think,
yeah, I knew that!Whatever the case, transform your future aspirations into the actual present tense. If the current you doesn't have
in mind a conscious image of the thing you're building, the future you won't have a house!
Back to Collier:
[Your aspirations] must be warmed by Faith, nurtured by constant belief. So-
Second. Read the 91st and 23rd Psalms, just as a reminder of God's power and His readiness to help you in all your needs.
I know this will be a sticking point for some. Whatever your faith, however, there's probably a similar quote about the power of God. It's trickier for those with no religion, yet we're all moved by faith. Just last week, I met a woman who knew her daughter could learn Spanish - because she's seven and kids that age are good at language - but that she could not. The woman had no linguistics degree, had not even read up on the matter beyond the occasional newspaper article about the benefits of language learning for children, but it was an article of
faith with her that she could not learn another language. This is what you need to counteract. So look for a successfull language learner and tell yourself,
I can do that too. Learning Italian? Find an Italian guy who learned English - and who you think is an idiot! Tell yourself,
If he could learn English, I can learn Italian! The point is, you need something to point to beyond your own insecurities when the going gets rough and you wonder if you're ever going to learn.
For what it's worth I personally prefer this bit:
What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them and ye shall have them.
Matthew 11:24
But whatever works for you. Just make sure that when doubt creeps into your mind, you've got a good comeback.
Back to Collier:
Third. Don't forget to be thankful, not merely for past favors, but for the granting of this favor you are now asking! To be able to thank God for it sincerely, in advance of its actual material manifestation, is the finest evidence of belief.
Again, if you're not religious, you should still be able to muster gratitude. Be grateful not just for what you have learned but that you have the tools to learn more and you will learn more so that the
you who speaks Swahili is not some potential self in an abstract future but the real and present
you in becoming.
And back:
Fourth. BELIEVE! See it as an accomplished fact. When the thought of it occurs to you, and doubts and fears creep in, say to yourself - "God is attending to that," and KNOW THAT HE IS!
For God, you may substitute "my subconscious," "my dedication," "my plan"; but again, be sure that when those doubts creep in, you've got an answer for them thats bigger than your fears.
The passage I have excerpted and elaborated on is, I know, a bit odd - one part
The Secret and one part Christian mysticism. It's also a bit repetitive, stripped to its essence. Faith, gratitude and belief interact in a way that makes it seem like steps 2-4 could be rolled into one. But the questions of faith, gratitude and belief are actually responses to different flavors of the "yes, but"s that we're tempted to offer when we don't believe we can do it. And as the "yes, but"s will likely multiply when we're not so sure of our vision, it's good to nip them all in the bud, even if it takes a little extra time. That way, when you go to your studies, you can review your vocabary instead of rehashing your doubts.
Working through the above will not make you a language genius. But it will make you a persevering language learner, which for most of us is a lot more important. Now that you've got the idea and the reasoning, here's a final summary, more basic, to keep in mind. I have reworked this one a bit so that if you can at least believe in Nature's God, in the phrase of the Declaration of Independence, it shouldn't trouble:
You need:
1) A vision represented as something already real: You speak this language!
2) Faith that you have been given the tools to make the vision real: You can speak this language!
3) Gratitude for both what is done and what will be done: This language is already yours; you're just in the process of claiming it.
4) Belief that success is yours: You speak this language; you're just waiting for reality to catch up, and with every word you read, with every phrase you utter, you see your belief is true.
So, there you have it. A strange little sermonette based on a strange little sermonette. Then again, it's being published on an internet that didn't exist 20 years ago with a personal computer that didn't exist 40 years ago thanks in part to telecommunications strategies barely conceived of 120 years ago in a country that was unimaginable 250 years ago. If you look at all the things humankind has done when they took a new idea as far as it would go, believing that not only can you speak Chinese, but that you already do and you're glad and grateful for it doesn't seem like quite that big of a stretch.